[摘要]
COUNTDOWN TO RESPECT
Know what you believe in and stick to it. Nothing loses you respect quicker than inconsistency.
Keep your distance. Be friendly but not over familiar. Don...
COUNTDOWN TO RESPECT
Know what you believe in and stick to it. Nothing loses you respect quicker than inconsistency.
Keep your distance. Be friendly but not over familiar. Dont confide intimate details.
Keep your own counsel. Dont share all your dilemmas. Even if you resolve them youll have left the impression that youre indecisive or unable to cope with pressure.
Dont ask anyone to do anything you wouldnt do yourself.
Communicate—simply and often.
Keep your eye on the objective.
Dont get drawn into colleagues personal lives.
Keep cool. Dont respond instantly or say yes to everything.
Keep your head. A calm presence is an invaluable asset.
Be good at your job. Know that youre good. Self-respect is the key. Itll show up in the way people deal with you.
Accept that you cant please all the people all the time—or even some of the people all of the time.
让人重视你的注意事项
清楚自己的想法并坚持。左右摇摆会让你在别人心目中的形象大打折扣。
保持你的距离,友好却不要太亲近,不要和同事袒露太私人的细节。
把决定权拿在自己手里,不要事无巨细都向同事请教。因为即使你已经自己解决了问题,你会给人以优柔寡断或无法面对压力的不良印象。
连自己都不想做的事情就不要麻烦别人去做。
与同事的沟通——直接并经常。
一直盯住你的目标。
不要纠缠于同事的私人生活中。
保持冷静,对听到的任何事情不要立刻表态。
保持理智,镇定是你工作制胜的法宝。
善待你的工作,相信自己能胜任。自信是关键,这也会影响到人们对你的态度。
明白自己无法让所有人都满意,就是让一小部分人满意都很难。